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Steadying the Heart: Refuge through the Four Sublime States (358A26) - Online/Self-Paced

Oren Jay Sofer, SEP, Yong Oh, Cara Lai, MA, devon hase and Hakim Tafari

September 8 - 14, 2026

Date and Time Details:
Tuesday to Monday
September 8 - 14, 2026 (6 nights)
Start Time: ~7:00pm US Pacific
End Time: ~11:00am US Pacific
(Times are approximate and subject to change)

Online via Live Broadcast

Contact: Spirit Rock Registration
registration@spiritrock.org

  • Sustainer-Audit – $199.00
  • Mudita/Karuna Scholarship-Audit – $99.00
  • BIPOC Scholarship-Audit – $99.00

Online Retreat Cancellation Policy:

  • $50 fee = on or before 2 days prior to program start (Pacific Time)
  • NO refund = less than 2 days prior to program start (applies to ALL participants)

Please only register for one of the two formats: Online/Self-Paced or Residential Retreat.

Registration closes at 3:00pm (Pacific Time) on September 8, 2026. A waiting list will be created if the program fills early. Recordings* will be available for this program.


Description:

The Buddhist path cultivates four powerful and transformative qualities: kindness, compassion, joy, and balance. These qualities are innate human capacities, and can be developed into steadfast dwelling places for the heart. Known as the brahmavihāras, or “sublime homes,” these states can serve as powerful supports both for deepening concentration and insight on the contemplative path and responding to suffering in these turbulent times. We will explore techniques to develop each of the four sublime states and to release the obstacles that hinder us from living a full life and responding meaningfully to the needs of our world.

Our time together will include silent and guided sitting meditation, walking meditation, Dharma talks, and instructions. This retreat is appropriate for both beginning and more experienced meditators.


Details for the Online/Self-Paced Retreat:
Our Self-Paced Retreat option allows you to participate fully from wherever you are, bringing the stillness directly into your home. Each day includes 2–3 hours of meditation instruction, Dharma teachings, mindful movement, and heart practices, livestreamed from Spirit Rock’s Upper Meditation Hall and recorded for on-demand access.

Practicing from home allows the retreat to unfold gently within the rhythms of your own life. You may join live when you’re able, move at your own pace, and revisit the teachings as often as you wish—whether you follow the full daily schedule or spread the content out over several weeks. All sessions are available within 24 hours and include unlimited replay, offering a flexible and supportive way to turn inward and release what no longer serves you.

While the Self-Paced Retreat format does not include teacher meetings, small groups, Q&A, or affinity groups, it offers the gift of practicing in your own sanctuary. You can create your retreat space, follow your nervous system’s natural pacing, and allow the teachings to weave organically into daily life. With lifetime access to the recordings, the retreat can continue to nourish your practice long after it concludes.

Included:

  • Live video broadcast from the meditation hall of all Dharma talks, meditations, and other instructions
  • Retreat homepage – includes retreat schedule, access to recordings, other resources
  • Recordings of all Dharma talks and meditations, video and audio

Online/Self-Paced Retreat Fee:
Sustainer – $199
Scholarship Rate (BIPOC, Mudita/Karuna, or Young Adult) – $99

All are welcome! No one will be turned away for lack of funds as space allows. For more information, please email Registration@spiritrock.org no later than 4:00pm PT on the day prior to the program start.

*Recording Note: You will have unlimited access to view the program recordings. If you would like access to the recordings, you must register by the deadline above. Each day’s recordings will be available within 24 hours after the live session.

Cancellation Policy – Online Retreat:

  • $50 fee = on or before 2 days prior to program start (Pacific Time)
  • NO refund = less than 2 days prior to program start (applies to ALL participants)

About the Teachers

Oren Jay Sofer, SEP

Oren Jay Sofer teaches meditation and communication internationally. He holds a degree in comparative religion from Columbia University, is a Certified Trainer of Nonviolent Communication, and a Somatic Experiencing Practitioner for the healing of trauma. Oren is also the author of several books, including the best-seller "Say What You Mean: A Mindful Approach to Nonviolent […]

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Yong Oh

Yong is a Dharma Council teacher at the Durango Dharma Center and a core teacher for Sacred Mountain Saṅgha, and is also a visiting teacher for other community centers across North America. He teaches retreats at Spirit Rock Meditation Center, Insight Meditation Society, Big Bear Retreat Center, and Vallecitos Mountain Retreat Center. He is a […]

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Cara Lai, MA

Cara Lai spent most of her life trying to figure out how to be happy—or at least avoid total misery—which ultimately led to her spending the majority of her adulthood meditating. She's explored the wild beauty of the human experience through many adventures in consciousness, including long retreats, chronic illness, and the profound experiences of […]

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devon hase

devon first encountered meditation in 2000, as a college sophomore longing for a deeper way to meet life. Since then, She has spent over six cumulative years in meditation retreat in both the Insight and Vajrayana traditions, studying closely with teachers such as Joseph Goldstein, Tara Brach, Yongey Mingyur Rinpoche, and others. Most recently, devon […]

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Hakim Tafari

Hakim Tafari has studied martial arts since 1996, starting off with Southern-style Praying Mantis Kung Fu. After a major knee injury, he did a lot of research and decided to start studying Tai Chi Chuan. From 1998 until present, Hakim has studied, taught, researched, and spent many hours practicing the art. During this time, he […]

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